AbusiveLove.com
LOVE SHOULD NOT HURT
Love Should Be Life Giving Not Life Destroying
COVERING PRIMARILY VERBAL ABUSE IN RELATIONSHIPS
A complete site for understanding and coping with abusive verbal behavior
By Richard (Rick) deGaris Doble, M.A.
I have been subjected to verbally abusive relationships for most of my life within my family and in my first marriage.
This web site is my personal understanding from my life long real world experience. Although, I am not a doctor, psychologist, therapist or a professional, I am a published author who has learned to record experiences accurately and to coherently articulate my insights.
LEARN TO RECOGNIZE THE SIGNS
Learn To Change Things In Your Life That Hurt And Destroy
About Verbal Abuse
| What Is Abuse?
| 10 Signs
| 34 Examples
| Dating: 8 Red Flags
| When To Stay-Leave
| Personality Disorders
| History
| Doble's Personal Stories
| Self-Help, Recovery
| Types, Categories
| Terms, Concepts
| Links
| Blog Of Personal Observations
How To Respond To Abusive Words
VERBALLY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS INCLUDE:
Battered Women, Battered Men, Child, Parent,
Elder, Date And Student Abuse -- In Relationships, Marriage, Family, Dating, Siblings, Relatives, School, Church
PLUS information about physical, sexual, social, intellectual, economic and spiritual abusive behavior
Now listed in Open Directory (DMOZ) Under Mental Health
If You Suspect You Are In An Abusive Relationship Of Any Kind
Find Out As Much As You Can Now
DON'T WAIT
It took me my entire life to discover this (60 years) and I feel that I wasted much of my time feeling angry, frustrated, imposed upon, taken advantage of and limited.
Don't let this happen to you.
You have a right to live free of abusive behavior.
Start now by recognizing the signs and then finding out what you can do.
You and your partner or family can discover how to avoid this and unlearn destructive patterns.
Abuse is about control
Oh BTW did I mention control?
Combatting this is about demanding respect and playing fair
Abusive people believe that conflict, arguing, controlling, and emotional outbursts are what life is all about. They believe that it is, in fact, life. But it is not. You do not have to live with roller coaster emotions or feel like you must guard your words or walk on egg shells. You can take control of your own feelings and the way you communicate without trying to control the other person. So let's get started.
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What Is Abuse?
10 Signs
34 Examples
Dating: 8 Red Flags
When To Stay-Leave
Personality Disorders
History
Doble's Personal Stories
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